My weekend

First of all, can you believe I didn't take any photos this weekend? My smaller Canon finally kicked the bucket, and it just wasn't convenient to bring out my big Nikon. So alas, no photos...which I hate! Luckily one of my Christmas presents is a new camera (Thanks Santa/Mom and Dad)! I did have an amazing weekend though! Hank was on a super short tour, so I figured I would come down and spend time with the people I love and miss all of the time, living two hours away. I came down Thursday night and hung out with my Mom, visited the gym, and happily watched the premiere of The Jersey Shore! I also caught up with The Real Housewives of the OC and I loved it. I am not ashamed to admit I am a total sucker for horrible/wonderful reality programming...especially ANYTHING having to do with NJ (I was born and raised there) and any of the Real Housewives seasons. So good. I stayed up watching shows, and Friday I spent literally the entire day shopping. It was insane. I got a huge portion of our holiday shopping done, which makes me really happy. Afterward I went to see Brothers with Sarah. We both really enjoyed it- it was so intense though that I realized I was holding my breath for most of the movie. I would definitely recommend it to anyone who likes dramatic, serious films- I absolutely loved it. After the movie we went and got Mexican food and then I headed home and talked to Hank on the phone for awhile <3. Saturday I spend being super lazy and feeling super happy about that! Once I got up and felt motivated to start my day I went on a great run and then started getting ready for a little girl's night with Shirley, Alana and Erin. Shirley is another one of my best friends and all three of us went to college together. There are 8 of us that have stayed in super close touch, and after ten years of friendship, I consider these girls my family. We all take a big "girls trip" every year, and we've done this since we were in college. We've been all over the country (and Mexico haha) and I'm so grateful we are all so close! So anyway, the night was awesome. We shopped a bit, and then had dinner at The Parlor in Phoenix, which is a pizza and salad place. It was my first time there and I definitely enjoyed both the food and atmosphere. After dinner Erin had to go home but Shirl, Alana and I went over Alana and Chad's and then ended up going out in Tempe for awhile. This morning I woke up a little late due to staying out a little late, and my Mom, sister and I went on our usual Sunday morning ritual! My Dad usually comes too, but he is on a business trip in DC so it was just the girls. We went to Starbucks, Trader Joe's and Sprouts to get tons of delicious groceries. When we got home my Aunt Pat had arrived from Tucson so we all went out to lunch in celebration of Nanny's 89th birthday (which is actually tomorrow). Overall I had the best weekend. My heart is so full with love it's about to burst, and I feel so happy I was able to see so many people I adore. I am really looking forward to Shirley and Alana's visit in the next couple of weeks too. Prescott is beautiful right now, and I'm excited to be in the holiday spirit with them. Speaking of excited, Hank gets home from tour in about ten hours and I'm sooo happy. This weekend we are staying here in town, and I can't wait for long walks, lit up by all the Christmas lights downtown.

Tomorrow starts a new work week- the last full week before holiday break! I hope all of you had an amazing weekend...and I hope you have a great week!

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Cheers,

Here's to all the wonderful people in my life -

some of you I've known for a long time, and we may not talk often,
some of you I've only met in the past couple of years,
some of you are in my daily life,

but all of you hold a special place in my heart. Cliche or not, it's true. Life happens, people drift apart and come back together. I firmly believe that everyone in my life is there for a reason, and everyone who has gone out of my life has gone that way for a reason too. I don't ever have hard feelings over stuff like that, maybe that's weird. Two of my dearest girlfriends and I spent years apart from each other, due to various reasons, a small fallout with one of them, but we've "rekindled" our friendship flames with each other over the past year or two. I've spent time across the country, visiting one of them, and the other I see on a pretty regular basis in both Prescott and Phoenix; she makes the most amazing effort to come visit Hank and me. People come and people go. If I would have just closed the door on those seemingly "lost" friendships, I wouldn't have the opportunity to have my life enriched so deeply by these amazing women. In both situations both myself and my friend could be held accountable for the drifting. But even if I love a friend so much, if I'm the only one making the effort I don't take it personally, because I've been there too. People are busy, people's priorities change, people go through things, and I'm not so self-centered as to think anyone in my life revolves around ME (besides my husband of course, haha!). I do understand though, that as adults, friendships take work. But with that said, I feel like friendships shouldn't be terribly hard- I feel like if people want to keep in touch, they will. It shouldn't be a chore, or a struggle. And when it becomes that, on either side, I feel like that's just the way it goes. If someone drifts from me, or me from them, I feel like that's life and I don't get upset about it, I simply accept it, and have faith that if someone is supposed to be in my life it will be that way, and if not, it won't. I have many friends in my life who I don't get to talk to regularly but it feels as if nothing ever changes- no resentment, no negativity. As adults, it's not realistic to expect others to have time to sit down and chat for hours, or sometimes even minutes. Luckily one of my best friends, Autumn, and I make time throughout the week for good solid hour-long chats. But that's us, and the only one of my friends I do this with, outside of my Mom. She's a stay at home Mama herself, so our schedules are able to work well together and throughout our long friendship we've always made the time. Another one of my oldest friends, Melissa, is a server at a super busy bar in Phoenix, and her schedule is opposite of mine, so we usually have to schedule phone calls in advance on her one day off if we want to talk at all. Amber and I talk every single day, all day, via blackberry messenger, and although we don't usually talk on the phone all of the time, we always know what the other is up to. It's not perfect, but we make it work. And I know when I do talk to any of the people I am closest to, it's as if no time has passed, and I know we'd be there for each other through anything. And to me, that is being an adult. We have husbands or boyfriends, children and pets, careers and college, meals to make, working out to do, reading, sleeping, me-time, date nights, LIFE. The older I get, and the more I look back at my life, I know that in my past I have been both inconsiderate and flaky. And very much so, to the point of losing friends. In fact, a majority of my late teens and into college was spent being a great friend to my friends immediately around me, but having issues keeping in touch with other friends who weren't in my day to day life. It's just what I was like. I accept it now, it doesn't bother me, and the friends who I've been close with through that entire time are still here, over a decade later. Luckily, now, it's gotten a bit easier to make the effort- it's fun to mail letters, email, call, etc, and stay in touch with the people I care about. I'm definitely not great at it, and if I get even a little bit sad, I will retract into myself for awhile. And I love that the few girls I am close with understand this about me and can accept that. As far as others go, I never expect anything. I'll call or write a few times, and if I don't hear back, no big deal. The small group of friends I've cultivated get unconditional love from me, no matter what. It's comforting to know we do the best we can, and there's no games and shittiness and resentment. I'm not really sure where this post came from, but for some reason I've really been feeling very appreciative of life lately and reflecting on all of the people in it, now and then, near and far. I started thinking about all of these different friends and just started typing, not knowing where this was going...and this is what came out. I have to say, one advantage to blogging is being able to just empty out my entire head onto this computer screen and having the satisfaction of having it here to look back on. I love it. At the same time though, it is kind of unnerving to know every word I say is being perceived in different ways by different people. Oh, how I wish I could see myself from a different perspective. Wouldn't that be a gift?

So, do you have friends who live far away? How often do you talk to them? Have you ever "lost" a friend and then rekindled that friendship?

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